Kickshaw of life

The biggest learning from my 25 year old life is “being a bright student doesn’t always help”.  There are so many secret ingredients behind a successful life. In my opinion major contributor to a beautiful life is “LUCK”. It’s not about bad luck it’s all about how you face it. Actually there is nothing called a permanent bad luck. 

Life has no magic mantra.  No matter what you do, at least 1 out of 10 decisions are going to be wrong.  The 1 which went wrong couldn’t have been better. It’s the result of the equation created at that time. Remember -never ever regret, live with the decision you made once or apply "perseverance"-this is the key to good luck.   I understand that it’s easy to write but difficult to live with that moment when you realize that you are actually in the –X-Y axis.  But the kind of attitude you show at that time when you’re actually in negative proves your strength.

Be humble, be human, and be grounded.  One should always live close to the nature.  Nature is same for everyone, it’s unbiased. It’ll restrict you from being a high nosy.  All these things are inter related in our personal and professional life.  Each event in the life creates dots in itself. We should be able to connect dots together. You can’t be happy if any one of the two Ps (Personal and Professional) goes wrong. Be balanced. You should know which line should be created to make a better graph of life. May be in the 3^rd decade of life you feel 2^nd P, which is professional life is more important and it can change in the 4^th decade.  Whatever you want, just make a decision and life with it. It could be a trade off, but then its life.

I gave more importance to the 2^nd P and today I’ve to sacrifice time for my family. Living away from family is not easy. If you think it’s about money, just forget it.  Money is the driver, the joy and satisfaction that lead to drive. Money part is not as glamorous as it looks from outside. There are lots of heart burns, tears. It takes away your comforts, sometimes its a very lonely ride as a single professional. It’s stressful, no back outs. It can make you a tough person. You have to take hard decisions, even if you can’t trust anyone. You’ll find lots of stones on your way. Analyze each stone,. Don’t step on wrong stone it can hurt. Just balance, when you walk in the way of life. Your life will be changed and beautiful.